Going through the emotional stress of a divorce is quite enough. Unfortunately, there are a lot of technical things that have to be dealt with as well. In order to minimize the stress, costs, and length of the divorce, follow these tips for divvying up your assets:
Recognizing the One Similarity
First, get together and make a list of all your assets. Many couples find it useful to order them in terms of monetary value. As you do, you'll start building a sense of what you'll be dealing with and what pieces you want. From there, you will be ready to start splitting up your stuff. There are several different ways you can go about splitting up your assets. Here are a few of them:
Consulting with the Best Negotiator
For example, if a couple had been married for 12 years, but a spouse was only on active duty for 8 of those years, then the DFAS won't make direct payments to the non-military spouse. There needs to be at least 10 years of active duty while still married. However, a judge may still decide to split up a pension if the "10-10 test" isn't met, in which case the service member will be responsible for making payments to the ex-spouse instead of payments coming directly from the DFAS.
Another method is the "cutting the cake" technique. One person splits the assets into two equal parts and the other chooses. You can either decide on your own who will be doing the splitting, or you could flip a coin. Winner splits, loser chooses first. If you'd rather not go through the process of splitting up valuables, you could always hold a yard sale or put your things for sale online and split the money you get once the sale is over. That way, you can start fresh and new without old memories tied to old objects.
As well as you splitting your "stuff" may go, you still will probably need help splitting the big things like your home, car, family business, or retirement. Decisions like this might have to involve the court or other legal advice. Don't hesitate to turn to your Tacoma divorce lawyer; he/she will be able to help you out. Hopefully at the end of the day, you can part ways amicably and start a new life comfortably.
Recognizing the One Similarity
First, get together and make a list of all your assets. Many couples find it useful to order them in terms of monetary value. As you do, you'll start building a sense of what you'll be dealing with and what pieces you want. From there, you will be ready to start splitting up your stuff. There are several different ways you can go about splitting up your assets. Here are a few of them:
Consulting with the Best Negotiator
For example, if a couple had been married for 12 years, but a spouse was only on active duty for 8 of those years, then the DFAS won't make direct payments to the non-military spouse. There needs to be at least 10 years of active duty while still married. However, a judge may still decide to split up a pension if the "10-10 test" isn't met, in which case the service member will be responsible for making payments to the ex-spouse instead of payments coming directly from the DFAS.
Another method is the "cutting the cake" technique. One person splits the assets into two equal parts and the other chooses. You can either decide on your own who will be doing the splitting, or you could flip a coin. Winner splits, loser chooses first. If you'd rather not go through the process of splitting up valuables, you could always hold a yard sale or put your things for sale online and split the money you get once the sale is over. That way, you can start fresh and new without old memories tied to old objects.
As well as you splitting your "stuff" may go, you still will probably need help splitting the big things like your home, car, family business, or retirement. Decisions like this might have to involve the court or other legal advice. Don't hesitate to turn to your Tacoma divorce lawyer; he/she will be able to help you out. Hopefully at the end of the day, you can part ways amicably and start a new life comfortably.
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Lutz Law Offices has been assertively representing clients since 1997. They practice exclusively in matters of Tacoma Divorce law and are able to provide you with comprehensive legal representation that effectively and efficiently meets your needs. Contact a family law attorney in Tacoma you can trust.