In todays world divorce is very rampant and has led to disorientation of many families. Different people have taken different approaches in dealing with this heartbreaking cancer. Some of the peeps in the divorce diaries are listed below.
A glitter of hope.As New Year approaches, I give a ray of hope. Hope is just a near distance away and I am sure of that since I am nearly there. Time taken maybe a while or even years but I am certain as I am not a stranger to this.
The wall writings. My marriage ended this way. First there were a series of whines that I never recognized what they were for, and then a bang followed. In review, I can see it clearly though back then my vision failed to recognize the wall writings.
You will never amount to anything you worthless piece of crap. These were my ex word as our marriage was still unraveling. I would like to thank him officially for those hurtful, heart piercing words for little did he know that he adding favor onto me. Through his own words he was encouraging me to climb the ladder and be something great without him of course. It now turns out that it was all I was waiting for.
Commercializing divorce. An ending marriage is never prepared by the society. Just as weddings, by now you should have thought that someone somewhere should have come with a way of turning an ending marriage into a machine for profit making. It is very sensible considering that half of the first marriages and almost three quarter of subsequent marriages end up in a divorce. It is so common that a slight nerve firm could come in and convert divorce into a gold mine.
Strangers are equal to cheap help. Those people who never knew me as I was in turmoil of my ending marriage would often ask me questions like, how were you able to do it? How were you able to get over it? Those who already knew me often do not ask since they already know as I had already told them. Then I answer these new questions which are also now common to me, I talk about it, again I talk about it, again and again. The more I keep talking over and over, I find out that am letting it out from the heart. A regular tete-a-tete, sharing with whomever at whenever for sure works.
You should not share with kids as a single parent. Knowing when to keep my mouth shut is one thing that I have learnt as I became a single mom. Trying to manage your home on your own are among the many things that comes along with a dissolving marriage and they this should not be a bother. This is my job and I am not to keep on telling my kids on the reason I am doing all the chores alone.
List of grateful at things. I ought to be appreciative to something. Through my journey towards contentment, I have come to a realization that finding your sense of happiness is in the way very essential. Counting my blessings together with looking on the bright side of life is the way to take.
In conclusion it is very helpful in getting into a heart to heart conversation with other divorced persons as you share same experience. This will help you come with several ways of moving on with life despite the harsh reality of an ending marriage.
A glitter of hope.As New Year approaches, I give a ray of hope. Hope is just a near distance away and I am sure of that since I am nearly there. Time taken maybe a while or even years but I am certain as I am not a stranger to this.
The wall writings. My marriage ended this way. First there were a series of whines that I never recognized what they were for, and then a bang followed. In review, I can see it clearly though back then my vision failed to recognize the wall writings.
You will never amount to anything you worthless piece of crap. These were my ex word as our marriage was still unraveling. I would like to thank him officially for those hurtful, heart piercing words for little did he know that he adding favor onto me. Through his own words he was encouraging me to climb the ladder and be something great without him of course. It now turns out that it was all I was waiting for.
Commercializing divorce. An ending marriage is never prepared by the society. Just as weddings, by now you should have thought that someone somewhere should have come with a way of turning an ending marriage into a machine for profit making. It is very sensible considering that half of the first marriages and almost three quarter of subsequent marriages end up in a divorce. It is so common that a slight nerve firm could come in and convert divorce into a gold mine.
Strangers are equal to cheap help. Those people who never knew me as I was in turmoil of my ending marriage would often ask me questions like, how were you able to do it? How were you able to get over it? Those who already knew me often do not ask since they already know as I had already told them. Then I answer these new questions which are also now common to me, I talk about it, again I talk about it, again and again. The more I keep talking over and over, I find out that am letting it out from the heart. A regular tete-a-tete, sharing with whomever at whenever for sure works.
You should not share with kids as a single parent. Knowing when to keep my mouth shut is one thing that I have learnt as I became a single mom. Trying to manage your home on your own are among the many things that comes along with a dissolving marriage and they this should not be a bother. This is my job and I am not to keep on telling my kids on the reason I am doing all the chores alone.
List of grateful at things. I ought to be appreciative to something. Through my journey towards contentment, I have come to a realization that finding your sense of happiness is in the way very essential. Counting my blessings together with looking on the bright side of life is the way to take.
In conclusion it is very helpful in getting into a heart to heart conversation with other divorced persons as you share same experience. This will help you come with several ways of moving on with life despite the harsh reality of an ending marriage.